"Children Learn What They Live"

    Every adult was once a child and their adult behavior today is a reflection of what they lived with as a child. When I was enrolled in the National Council of Negro Women kindergarten  a poem by Dorothy Law Nolte titled  "Children Learn What They Live" really made an impression on me. The poem’s central idea is a child becomes what they are exposed too and taught. The words of the poem are below:

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

    My prayer is that I can help my children grow up in the right environment and that others will do the same.